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Are you looking for some ways to encourage your husband? I think encouraging one another is an essential component of a happy marriage.. my husband is my biggest supporter and cheerleader and it means so much to me. Here are some ways that I try to encourage him:
Write
Leaving little notes around the house for your man is a simple little way to offer some kind words of appreciation and encouragement.
Every so often I like to leave a post it note where he will find it. The note doesn’t necessarily have to say much. A simple “I love you!” or “You’re the best!” or “Thanks for all you do” can do wonders for encouraging your husband and making him smile.
Speak
It’s important to speak words in kindness and love. I don’t want to nag my husband. If I need him to do something I try to say something like “Hey honey, it would really help me out if you could take the trash out tonight” or “I’d appreciate it if you could vacuum on your day off tomorrow.” Not that it always comes out in such a kind way. I’m far from perfect.
Listen
Take the time to give your man your undivided attention. Listen to how his day went, what he’s feeling, his dreams for the future, and anything else he has to say. I think it’s important for relationships to have the kind of communication where each person feel heard.
Laugh
Have FUN together! Marriage is supposed to be fun, right? My husband can having me laughing so hard my face hurts. And sometimes I can even get him laughing 🙂
Having fun can be the simplest of things… bringing up an inside joke, a funny observation, and for us we have a lot of fun together while playing with our dogs (Riley, our 2 year old Shepherd mix, can be very entertaining chasing her toys around the house!)
Another fun idea is to cuddle up on the couch and watch some funny videos on YouTube.
Love
Say “I love you.” A lot. I’m sure you know your spouse loves you, but hearing the words never gets old. It’s always a wonderful reminder.
Another idea to show how much you love them is to do small acts of kindness. Take time to do the little things that you know mean a lot to them. Maybe take care of a chore they hate, take the time to make them their favorite meal, and so on.
These are just a few ways to encourage one another. The key is finding what works best for the two of you. Take the time to do the things that makes your spouse feel the most encouraged and you’ll begin to see your bond strengthened.
If you’re looking for more ways to strengthen your marriage, I’m really enjoying reading A Wife After God’s Own Heart by Elizabeth George. Another great book on marriage is The 30 Day Marriage Challenge by Becky Moseley.
How do you encourage your husband?
This is a great list and great advice. Marriage takes work, but it is so worth the effort to have something special.
I totally agree that it takes a lot of work but it is definitely worth the effort! Thanks for stopping by 🙂
Great encouragement. I want to be my husbands crown. Thanks for the reminder!!
So glad you found encouragement.. thanks for visiting!
Writing and listening are the two that are big ones for my hsuband. He likes when I write messages on the mirror for him.
I four your post in the Inspired Bloggers Network Link Ups group.
That’s great! Thanks for stopping by!
All of these points are dead on! Funny b/c I was JUST thinking about some of these the other day. My husband and I have been married almost 8 years, and although we are very happy & in love, it’s incredibly easy to get lost in the mundane and stresses of everyday life. It’s been a long time since I’ve left my man little surprise love notes, but I’m excited to start surprising him again! It’s the little things that add a little ‘spark’ back!
We enjoy writing little notes and letters to each other. I love the use of technology now for our communication during his business trips. I always send him a little love message while he’s gone.
Yes, technology is great! If physical notes are possible, sweet texts are the next best thing!
I love these ideas, Laura! It’s a fabulous reminder to build up our husbands and not to tear them down. I’m sharing this on SM today and pinning it for later! Happy Valentine’s Day, friend!
I’m so glad you liked the ideas and thanks so much for sharing! Happy Valentine’s Day to you too!! <3
I love this post! Especially the notes idea. I do enjoy writing sweet notes!
This is so great. I have been trying extra hard to speak love to my husband.
I just wrote a post for my husband (I called it an ode, but it wasn’t lol), letting him know how much his support means to me. I strive to let him know often and I’m committed to do it more. I have to work on the “laugh” part – I do that a lot with my kids, but not enough with my husband.
Always a great reminder on how much our hubby need us! Thanks for the inspiration!
This is great! I need work in all areas but I am trying!! He & I are a work in progress… But praise God we have been married ten years! I love him & praise the Lord for him! Thank you for sharing your wisdom today!
Great blog post! My husband and I have also left notes for each other, or even one looooonnngggg continuing note that we write on each day. Thank you for sharing and God Bless!
Aww what a great idea to start a continuing note! Thanks for visiting!
Thanks for the advice and reminders. Men don’t think like women and I think we quickly forget to do this simple things to show him our love and respect.